2008年6月6日星期五
成熟是什么?
余秋雨的话一直让我感到很唯美也很贴切,只是做起来却不是那么简单。
成熟是一种明亮而不刺眼的光辉,一种圆润而不腻耳的音响,一种不再需要对别人察言观色的从容,一种终于停止向周围申诉求告的大气,一种不理会哄闹的微笑,一种洗刷了偏激的淡漠,一种无须声张的厚实,一种能够看得很远却又并不陡峭的高度。
所以,对待一些无理取闹、毫无对别人的尊重可言、我行我素而且自以为是的人和行为,要做到成熟对待,又谈何容易啊?我们都是有感情的人,我们都不习惯被人呼来唤去,至少我们可以努力的去做一个合理平等对待的个体。但是这并不代表你肯定会被同等的对待。所以,当我们面对这样的人或事情的时候,也许笑一笑不去理会,心存鄙夷但是不被影响是需要定力的!
我不是圣人!哈哈!
成熟是一种明亮而不刺眼的光辉,一种圆润而不腻耳的音响,一种不再需要对别人察言观色的从容,一种终于停止向周围申诉求告的大气,一种不理会哄闹的微笑,一种洗刷了偏激的淡漠,一种无须声张的厚实,一种能够看得很远却又并不陡峭的高度。
所以,对待一些无理取闹、毫无对别人的尊重可言、我行我素而且自以为是的人和行为,要做到成熟对待,又谈何容易啊?我们都是有感情的人,我们都不习惯被人呼来唤去,至少我们可以努力的去做一个合理平等对待的个体。但是这并不代表你肯定会被同等的对待。所以,当我们面对这样的人或事情的时候,也许笑一笑不去理会,心存鄙夷但是不被影响是需要定力的!
我不是圣人!哈哈!
2008年6月5日星期四
Incredible May
I am never lucky during May, in any year. And this year would not be exception.
Or shall I say that I never know how to appreciate May. I don't know how to describe this. But surely when I look back I don't appreciate what I have done during the time being.
Maybe I should have a mid-year review?
I still remember May 2006, the worst forever. Then followed by May 2000. Then, the rest. The only good thing in May is just the French Open of Tennis in Roland Garros, which I have to stay up night to watch.
That's why I feel May can be improved. It cannot be worse! So expect it to be better.
Or shall I say that I never know how to appreciate May. I don't know how to describe this. But surely when I look back I don't appreciate what I have done during the time being.
Maybe I should have a mid-year review?
I still remember May 2006, the worst forever. Then followed by May 2000. Then, the rest. The only good thing in May is just the French Open of Tennis in Roland Garros, which I have to stay up night to watch.
That's why I feel May can be improved. It cannot be worse! So expect it to be better.
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